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Thankful Thursday: Reconciliation Edition

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The mistake wasn’t the kind of thing I’ll be worried about in 20 years, but it was too important to ignore. I had to try to make it right.

I don’t like confrontation, and I avoid it to a degree that isn’t always good (unless it’s my kids or my husband, but that’s another post). Sometimes people just mess up, and you can show them grace by letting it go. Other times people make mistakes that cause problems for a whole bunch of people, you aren’t doing them any favors by staying quiet. And I hate that part.

So today I am thankful for a good outcome. The person could have felt cornered and come out fighting. Instead, a gracious apology was offered, with the promise to make it right.

And for that I am thankful.


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Today I am thankful for a free evening…

You know what? I sat here so long thinking about how nice a free evening was going to be that I forgot what I was doing. Then I clicked over to the websites for our church and my son’s school to make sure I really did have a free evening.

So. A free evening. I’m thankful.

Sleep.

Books.

Did I mention sleep?

I am very thankful.


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Thanksgiving on the Blah Days

This morning I lectured my husband about the shelf life of cheese.

Yes. Cheese. Because out of all the important things we’re doing together–serving God, raising kids, owning a home–I needed to make sure that we were on the same page about when cheese is edible and when it is not. And sadly, that was the high point of the morning.

It’s easy for me to give thanks when things are good. And though it’s not necessarily easy for me to give thanks when things are bad, I do tend to reach out to God in those times. Not always in the right way or for the right reasons, but the struggle reminds me how much I need him.

It’s in the blah days that I have trouble. Nothing is wrong today. My family is healthy, nothing pressing is visible not he horizon. But it’s only 9:30, and everything so far has been more difficult than I planned. The fifteen minute project took an hour, the quick trip to the grocery store had to be done in the pouring rain, my husband did not understand that just this once I was going to suspend my obsessive (but well grounded) preoccupation with food-borne illness.

(Remember Listeria? The contagion that killed all those people with the cantaloupes last year? I have the proud distinction of being one of only a handful of people in Missouri who contracted Listeria food poisoning in 1994. They never discovered where I got it. I was on a first-name basis with the head of the St. Louis County health department for a while. I’m entitled to my crazy.)

(Unless I feel like you’re implying that I haven’t cleaned out the refrigerator in a while, then you best just put the cheese in your scrambled eggs and be quiet about it.)

(And for the record, he didn’t. The cheese was tossed. And although I still say that cheese was okay, I now realize that he wasn’t criticizing the state of the refrigerator, he just didn’t want to get sick.)

(But really, I’m totally over it. Really, I am.)

I should always be thankful. And I am. I’m thankful that the project got done. I’m thankful that getting food is so easy that I think a rainy parking lot is a burden. I’m thankful that my husband remained civil even though my insistence that the cheese was still good contradicted everything I’ve said about food safety over the last 18 years.

It’s important to express gratitude. Everything we have comes from the hand of a good God, and we need to honor him by giving thanks. Especially when we don’t really feel like it.

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Thankful Thursday

It’s a snow day here. The roads were only slick for about a 30 minute window of time, but since that happened to be the time when the buses were heading out, it was enough. Since the two oldest are heading out on a youth group trip tomorrow, the timing was perfect.

I am thankful for the snow, paltry though it is.

I am thankful for an unexpected break, so I can focus on laundry and all those other last-minute packing tasks.

I am thankful for children who are old enough to pack their own suitcases.


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Thankful Thursday

I’m still thankful for the fall weather. It’s been three weeks in a row now. I can’t remember a more gorgeous autumn than this one.

I’m thankful for breakfast with friends. I am thankful for friends who pray for you and lift your requests to the Lord.

I’m thankful that even though God is sovereign, he still wants us to pray to him and he works through our prayers.

I’m thankful that we got through another week of teaching the attributes of God to 3rd to 6th graders. I’m thankful for their tough questions that keep their teachers on their toes.

I’m thankful that the Cardinals won the World Series (even though I still feel bad for Texas. They never felt like the bad guys to me.)

Every Thursday I join Kim and some other bloggers to list things I’m thankful for.


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Thankful Thursday

I’m still thankful it’s fall, so everything I said last week still applies.

I’m thankful for the privilege of teaching 3rd through 6th graders on Wednesday nights. Todd and I have taught this age group long enough that the first kids we taught are driving and applying to college. Right now we’re teaching on the attributes of God, and the depth and insight (and difficulty) of their questions would make a seminary professor break out in a sweat. We both think we better study up for next week.

In other unrelated thanksgiving news…

I’m thankful for kind words.

I’m thankful that when you don’t get as much accomplished during the week as you planned, you get to start afresh on Monday.

Which means I share the sentiment that my teenage son said as he walked out to catch the bus: I’m thankful tomorrow is Friday.

Today I’m joining my friend Kim and a few other bloggers to list some things I’m thankful for.


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Thankful Thursday: Autumn Edition

I am thankful that it’s finally autumn. Fall is my favorite season ever. My love for this season is heightened by the fact that the beginning of fall means that summer is over. I love living in a place where we have four distinct seasons, but summer is my least favorite. I enjoy summer at its start. The first days of swimming, warm sun, and lightning bugs are all fun, but I get weary of the heat. Six weeks of summer is plenty, in my opinion.

But autumn. Ahhhh. I think I could live in autumn forever, but I would probably not appreciate it as much if I did. I think it’s the brevity of autumn that helps make it so dear.

So I am thankful for autumn. I am thankful for crisp days, changing leaves, and evenings spent wrapped in quilts and relishing that we’re snug in our house.

I am thankful for a big yard with lots and lots of trees.

I am thankful for cute, furry dogs who cuddle with me under the quilts while I read and watch TV (and cheer on the Cardinals. I had to work baseball in here somehow.)

But put them all together?

Leaves in my house. Furry, low-to-the-ground puppies are like magnets for fallen leaves. We could do a decent leaf identification project just by gathering leaves off the kitchen floor.

So I sweep, and vacuum, and sweep some more.

But that’s okay, because fall is worth the trouble.

Each Thursday, my friend Kim and a few other bloggers list things they are thankful for. Today I am joining them.


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Thankful Thursday

It’s been quite a week. If I had to name it, I would call it “The Week of the Plumber.”

Since you probably didn’t click on here to read the ends and outs of our home repair woes, I’ll try to explain this quickly.

We had repairmen here to repair drywall, who found a bigger problem in the crawl space (which we would have otherwise been oblivious to for quite some time). Between the two problems I have had repairmen here for the past five weekdays, with about 40 hours without water thrown in just for fun.

Today I am thankful for RUNNING WATER.

It’s amazing how many things we take for granted. Things that are actually luxuries feel like entitlements when we don’t have them. I was working on a Sunday School lesson on trusting God (Ezra 8:21-36) when Todd announced that he was going to have to turn the water off. Such a minor thing compared to traveling from Babylon to Jerusalem, but suddenly so much more real.

Anyway, everything is fixed. And today, as far as I know, anyway, no repairmen will be coming. I may celebrate by staying in my pajamas.

Today I’m joining my friend Kim and some other bloggers in listing something I’m thankful for.


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Thankful Thursday

The past couple of weeks have seen quite a few internet kerfuffles and dust-ups. Blogs I visit have been discussing the importance of the Trinity, because they believe that some actions and statements by a “celebrity” pastor have undermined it. Carl Trueman, Tim Challies, and Thabiti Anyabwile wrote some of the most helpful posts on the controversy, if you’re interested.

(Trueman’s disdain for my country’s sacred cows like football make this red-blooded American girl a little cranky, but he’s right on about this one — and he’s usually right on about problems with American culture, I just don’t like to hear it.)

Anyway, in a chain of events that would take too long to explain, talk then shifted to how we in the church teach our youth. It’s a question that comes up time and again on the interwebs: Are youth groups really necessary?

I’ll admit, this also makes me cranky (even crankier than when one criticizes American football). You see, I’m a youth group kid, and when I look back on my years in church youth group — and my own church’s youth program, in which my two oldest participate — I see it as a positive thing.

And every time, just when I feel my blood pressure start to rise, I realize that the kind of youth program they’re talking about is quite different from the ones I’ve experienced. You would think I would have learned this by now, but no, I make this mistake over and over.

The youth ministers I know and love wouldn’t dream of keeping teenagers (or any kid older than ten or so) out of the regular worship service period, let alone to play games. And while there is a time and a place for Nerf wars and bowling, teaching the Word is always the priority.

Not that they hit the bullseye every time. I remember attending a regional youth conference where the speaker played a Beatles record backwards and started warning us about subliminal messages hidden in rock music. Keep in mind that this was the mid to late eighties, when Beatles music was only found on Musak and in our parents’ record collections. We were the generation that made Milli Vanilli a national sensation.

But even at that, the take-away message about using discernment was not wasted. And and I remember several lessons on foundational truths, like, for instance, the importance of the Trinity.

So today I am thankful. I am thankful for youth ministers and leaders, past and present, who feel a burden to teach the truth. I’m thankful that my experience with youth ministry is so overwhelmingly positive that I’m momentarily confused when I see it criticized.

And I’m thankful for the knowledge that Christ continues to build his church, and that the gates of Hell will not prevail against it. (Matthew 16:18)

Today I’m joining my friend Kim and a few other bloggers in remembering some things I’m thankful for.)


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Thankful Thursday – Baseball is beautiful edition

Sometimes it’s the little things, you know?

Apart from the readers who are related to me, I realize that there are only a handful of you who care about baseball, let alone the St. Louis Cardinals, but still.

Last night was a big night for fans of the St. Louis Cardinals.

I’ll spare you the details, because baseball stats bore me to death, too, but they’re going to the playoffs. A month ago, when Todd was changing the TV in disgust and saying, “I QUIT the Cardinals,” we didn’t see that coming.

God didn’t have to make the grass green or make leaves change colors in the fall. He didn’t have to make goldfinches bright yellow. He didn’t have to make Bach, who wrote “Invention No. 8 in F Major” that my daughter is playing right now. But he did.

I know we can argue that baseball is just a game and it doesn’t really matter, but it’s fun to watch (sometimes. Braves and Red Sox fans probably aren’t feeling the love right now.)

Last night I had the joy of seeing the Cardinals celebrate, and the joy of Tweeting and Facebooking about it with family and friends.

And the joy of jumping out of my skin when someone in my neighborhood fired off a gun and/or firecrackers in celebration.

Life is hard, and sometimes sad things happen. But we need to accept the good things that bring us joy with thanksgiving.

Wasn’t I lucky to be born in my favorite city?* Tootie, Meet Me in St. Louis

Go crazy, folks. Go crazy:**

*I wasn’t actually born in St. Louis, but there are no movie quotes that say, “Wasn’t I lucky to be born 100 miles outside of St. Louis in Southern Illinois?” Doesn’t quite have the same ring to it.

**Yes, I know. The clip is old. But it’s so FUN.


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